Frequently Asked Questions

All introductions begin through my inquiry form. I ask that you share your name, where you’re hoping we’ll meet, the date and time you’re considering, and how long you have in mind. In your note, let me know the best way to reach you — and if there are certain times I shouldn’t. Once we’re connected, we can sort through everything else privately.

I read every message myself. If it feels like something worth exploring, I’ll get back to you within 24 hours so we can continue privately and start planning from there.

Start with the inquiry form. From there, let me know whether email or text is best for you, as well as any times I should avoid reaching out. Once we’ve met and built a genuine connection, I also offer a more private way for us to stay in touch consistently.

A first meeting does include a brief verification, but I prefer to handle that privately and individually. Once I reach out, we’ll discuss the option that makes the most sense for both of us. I don’t ask you to upload sensitive personal information through my public form, and I don’t assume everyone has the same boundaries around privacy.

Privacy, to me, is simply good manners. Your name, your life, and our time stay where they belong. If you would prefer an NDA, send it ahead and I’ll review it before we meet.

Yes. Once we’ve spoken, completed verification, and both decided we’d like to meet, a deposit officially secures the date. From there, we can start planning our time together.

If something changes, please text me as soon as you know — email is perfectly fine too. If there’s enough notice, we can see whether another date works for both of us. Changes within 48 hours of a local meeting or one week of FMTY/travel are handled privately based on the plans already in place and may affect whether or how we reschedule.

Yes. I don’t tour in the traditional sense. Scottsdale is home, Chicago is my second home, and you can often find me in Miami and New York as well. I’m also open to FMTY — even if it’s something as simple as lunch because you were thinking of me. Geography shouldn’t be the reason we miss each other.